I have given a lot of thought to your question... First off let me say a 1911 is not for everybody. I have been shooting them for over 50 years. I can remember when Government surplus could be had for 150. now they go for 10x or more for them. All 1911's are not created equal. You have steel frames, alloy frames, plastic frames.. 5",4",3" barrels, .22, 9mm, .38 super, .45, 10mm, Series 70, {no internal safety}, Series 80 {Government Mandated P-In-T-A internal safety}. Does a cheap 1911 shoot as good as a 4000 model. They all go bang, problem is for how long, and where it's going. I have owned a bunch from different manufacturers. Currently my EDC is a Kimber Aegis Elite Ultra in .45. Light weight, {alloy frame} and packs a punch with 180gr JHP's. The choices are endless. The only good advise I can give you is look for something that fits your hand, and you are comfortable with. Contrary to popular beliefs, a .45 doesn't kick, it just sort of pushes back into your hand. A good grip is a must. Also, if you can, get one with a beaver-tail grip safety. You DO NOT want a slide bite. {when the slide goes to the rear after you shoot, and cuts the webbing on your hand, between the thumb and pointer finger] I'll tell you a story about a guy at the gun range.. The guy was a new shooter, he had just bought a new Hi-Point auto in .45, and came out to the range to shoot it. He was having a bit of a problem trying to get it to work. After watching him, I knew right off what the problem was, He kept "riding the slide" forward, causing the gun to miss feed.{FTF} Solving that problem, I watched as he shot, and showed him how his grip was all wrong. {Limp Wrist} @ 20ft he was lucky to hit the target.. I worked a bit more with him, and then offered to let him shoot one of mine. I gave him my Kimber 5" Custom Stainless, @ 20 ft all 8 rounds went into the center mass on a man size target, 3 were dead center and touching. He was amazed. My advice, trade that thing in on a gun. The best advice I can give you is, whatever your choice of caliber, PRACTICE, be familiar with how it comes apart, clean and oil, Practice some more.