I would love to help if I could simply find the time to do some loading. I load for .40 and have the tooling for .45 and 9mm, but I haven't yet started loading for them. Be warned though, you don't really save any $$, you just end up shooting more, LOL. Also, keep in mind that there is a significant outlay of $$ to get properly setup to reload, that's before buying components. But I load because I like to so the tooling is a wash in my book.
I have an RCBS single stage press that I have had forever, that's what I learned on. I will use that to work up new loads. I recently acquired a Hornady Lock-N-Load AP progressive press to really crank out the ammo. It simply rocks! If I can carve out some time and you don't care about some yappy dogs for about 15 minutes (takes them that long to settle down) I will give you a heads up. I wouldn't think about charging for it, that's just silly, LOL.